Is Yearning the Key to Love?
Yearning is a difficult word for me to relate to these days. I used to believe the words of David Deida about ‘yearning’. These days I question the validity of it being a constant disposition. I also question it from a place of what does yearning really mean?
Yearning can in fact mean a ‘deep longing tinged with tenderness or sadness’. It suits the drama of a woman’s life, to participate in saturate herself in the yearning of her life. It’s a no win situation.
I know the impact my yearning has had on me. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend it to any woman as a constant practice. I wouldn’t recommend demonstrating it to men, unless you have a man who has truly claimed and committed in heart to you.
When my yearning ‘yearns’ to express itself, I do so whole-heartedly in the company of good women and it’s soul full beauty is truly magnificent.
I do not try and live it in anymore as a constant.
Our yearning is designed to be ’unanswered’.
What is more important is to live in the place of the unknown pregnant possibility. Live in it’s richness and potentiality, full and complete like a resplendent empress. Be a woman in the paradise of creation.
Our yearning churns in the direction of negative polarity. It’s like an imploding black hole.
Yearning is contradicatory to the work of ‘Abraham-Hicks’ teachings for example. If you are wanting to create and use the Law of Attraction don’t yearn.
To give your yearning in an intimate sexual embrace to a man who has ‘claimed’ your heart and body. Your yearning can call forth his heart and body into deeper communion. Your yearning in those moments is designed to call your beloved husband into the depths of your oceanic love.
If you want to be ‘claimed’ then when being with a man who has not claimed your heart you may want to demonstrate your yearning sparingly.
It is important to tame our own ’romantic’ fantasy of yearning and to be in the disposition of the resplendent empress is more soulfully satisfying.
with deep love
Liana