Your Intimate Relationship has a Much Deeper Purpose
Once upon a time…….
Dont we all wish that anything after ‘once upon a time’ would come true and remain that way forever?
Many men and women treat their intimate relationships with this type of delusional fantasy of ‘Once Upon a Time’. Then as time goes on and polarity dwindles we get turned off by our partner. We can then become filled with childish resentfulness when it no longer resembles our happy fantasy.
In truth, we call our partners into relating with us to uncover the hidden gold in our hearts and psyches ‘our shadow’.
The sexual attraction you feel in the blazing glory of a new relationship will eventually cool to a slow burn or die out. This cooling leads to a doubting and fearfulness. Is this person the right one? And we begin our search again for another beautiful fantasy.
In actual fact, our sexual attraction is often a guarantee that we will not get what we want served up to us. The person that lights our fires in such a savagely beautiful way, will turn out to be just like one of our parents.
Oh my God! What a revelation, how many relationships do we need to have to realise this fact.
We will always end up with the sad end of that tale.
If we become aware of the dynamics of sexual attraction and it’s hidden gifts and traps then we can be in a position of empowerment and awareness around our choice of partner. We can in fact turn our relationship around.
We can still chose a man that completely makes us wet and turns us on. But we also know at some point further down the track this man will represent unresolved issues of our past. It’s not time to trade him in.
It’s just time to suck the marrow out of the relationship and to receive it’s teachings.
Relationships are a sacred intimate vessel of transformation.
One of the beautiful things about sexual polarity is that it can be a learned craft and we can learn this artform.
Once you become aware and embody this artform - it changes the way we do our lives and the intimate choices we make.
My Dangerous Beauty teaches such delightful art.
We can re-ignite the flames of old love from a new perspective with loving choice. If in the past we have made horrible choices in our partners, we can now learn to chose differently.
As a woman in relationship you will always be faced with choices. You just have to be willing to ask yourself right now - which one are these is most true for you?
- Are you going deeper in your relationship
- On your way out of your relationship
- Just plain confused about relationship
Breathe!
Now the question is what do you do about that realisation! Knowledge is power. None of these choices are wrong or to be ashamed of, they are a momentary truth blessed with tender opportunities for all types of growth.
We invite you to share your realisation and choice with My Dangerous Beauty.
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